Bucket-List Barbecue: 16 BBQ Joints You Must Visit before You Die
“Though I was born and raised in the South,” writes Rien Fertel in The One True Barbecue, “I grew up entirely barbecueless.” That is because he had never experienced true barbecue—whole hog barbecue. Recounting his first experience with the real stuff at Siler’s Old Time BBQ in Tennessee, he writes:
“Using my hands, I started forking the meat into my mouth. Each bite seemed to reveal a different part of the pig. I could discern, with tongue and teeth, the textural differences between the soft, unctuous belly meat and the firm, almost jerky-dry shoulder. The slaw added softly alternating rushes of sweet and heat to each smoke-tinged taste. In Memphis I had eaten barbecue more times than I’d like to count, but this was the first time I truly tasted barbecue.”
Whole hog is the true barbecue legacy, which Fertel documents in The One True Barbecue: Fire, Smoke, and the Pitmasters Who Cook the Whole Hog. And in honor of National Barbecue Day, we wanted you to experience those legendary barbecue joints for yourself. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Barbecue Country.
1. Scott’s-Parker’s Barbecue —Lexington, TN
2. Peg Leg Porker — Nashville, TN
3. Martin’s Bar-B-Que Joint — Nashville, TN
4. Buxton Hall — Ashville, TN
5. Skylight Inn — Ayden, NC
6. Bum’s Restaurant — Ayden, NC
7. Wilber’s Barbecue — Goldsboro, NC
8. Grady’s Barbecue — Dudley, NC
9. Sam Jones BBQ — Greenville, NC
10. Fuller’s Old Fashioned Bar-B-Q — Lumberton, NC
11. Sid’s Catering — Beulaville, NC
12. Jackie Hite’s Bar-B-Q — Batesburg-Leesville, SC
13. Sweatman’s Bar-B-Que — Holly Hill, SC
14. Scott’s Bar-B-Que — Hemingway, SC and Hell’s Half Acre, SC
15. Arrogant Swine — Bushwick, NY
16. Lamar Lounge — Oxford, MS
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My Kids Read Books About TV Characters… and I’m OK with That
My standing joke is that I’m sometimes the Rodney Dangerfield of publishers. Half the books I publish are what we call licensed tie-ins, which means that they are based on rights we license to make books with kids’ favorite television, movie, or toy characters. There’s a huge bias against these kinds of books, even within the children’s publishing world. (Maybe especially within the children’s publishing world.) Many a colleague will turn up a nose at a book about a Disney character over a more classic, original book. I can’t count the number of times someone has said to me, “Oh, we don’t read those kinds of books.” Then they ask if I’ve watched the latest episode of the Real Housewives.
I am not a big fan of reality TV. I have never seen an episode of any of the Real Housewives. So maybe I’m off base here, but I don’t understand how you can be obsessed with the housewives but won’t buy a Paw Patrol book for your child.
I’m an avid baker. I bake more when I get stressed out (I have perhaps the only husband who comes home to find the counters covered with cakes and cookies who says “Oh, no.”). Without analyzing my stress levels, let’s just say there is almost always something sweet in the house. And my hope is that my kids learn that it’s there, but we don’t have it all the time (and, no, not for breakfast no matter how much you smile adorably at me and tell me I’m the best mom ever). It’s nothing forbidden, but it does have a time and place. That to me is the definition of moderation.
My kids of course read classic books. We have a lovely library filled with award-winning books endorsed by people who judge those things and, even more so, pass their mother’s pretty high standards. I appreciate that they are well written and well made. We also have books about Elmo, Paw Patrol, Batman, and Star Wars. I appreciate that those books are well written and well made. And I appreciate the fact that my children love them and eagerly want to read about their favorite imaginary (to me, not them) friends.
I am not endorsing books that are shoddily made, and unfortunately that’s sometimes an unfair assumption about licensed character books. And by shoddily made I mean thrown together, badly written and with ill-fitting illustrations. Or books that just have a character thrown on them for the sake of branding which, as a publisher as much as a parent, drives me to Joker levels of crazy. Those books are out there, yes. But I’d argue that for every bad licensed character book, there’s also a pretty badly made non-licensed book.
Then you also get into the licenses themselves. Is a PBS-licensed character, such as Daniel Tiger, better than a Disney character like Mickey Mouse? That seems to me more a matter of taste, like saying watching The Real Housewives of New Jersey is totally not the same as watching Top Chef. But maybe the point is this: As much as some people want to put all licensed books in some kind of book ghetto, if they are great stories then what, really, is the issue?
It depends on what you are after.
If you want to be an arbiter of taste for your child then you’ll heavily patrol and control what they read. I presume this bleeds into other areas of their lives as well. And my hats are off to parents who lead no-screens, no-sugar, all-wooden-toy households. I swore I would be like that, to an extent. I said a lot of things before I actually had kids.
I want my children to love reading and love wonderful books but more than that I want them to delight in books. If that means their eyes light up when they see a book about Batman then I am going to be thrilled they are reading a book about Batman. In my mind, as a parent and as a publisher, that’s the end of the argument. My mantra? Read what you love, especially when you are young. There will be plenty of time you have to read things you don’t love, like really boring end-of-year reports or books about how to get your kids to sleep (which, by the way are the best kinds of books to put parents to sleep).
Many parents stress out about a reluctant reader who doesn’t want to read at all, but still fight letting the child choose his or her own kinds of books or comics or graphic novels. Is it better to have them reject book after book or would you rather they read a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle book and ask for the next one in the series? Who or what is it hurting: your taste? If my child hated reading I’d be glad he was reading anything, including the back of a cereal box. If that’s what is going to interest him and invite him into the world of books and–who knows?–open a whole world of reading for him, then by all means cowabunga ahead.
I can tell you as a publisher that at major houses there’s not some sort of “second rate” system for books with licensed characters. They go through the same editorial process, they are subject to a group of eagle-eyed copy editors, and are given the same thoughtful design review as any other book a house publishes. The license owner is treated as the author; we have meaningful conversations about what the character would or would not do in a story. We talk about how best to replicate in a book exactly what the child loves about a character’s world. These are, I can assure you, detailed conversations with much (lord, so, so much) back and forth to get it right.
While we’re on the subject, licensed character books are often priced lower than traditional storybooks. Publishers do realize that buying hardcover picture books for $17.99, which is about the average price, is a stretch for most people. You can usually buy a paperback storybook featuring a favorite licensed character for $3.99. That’s quite a difference. I can expand my child’s library, offering them four more stories for the price of one hardcover picture book. That means a lot to many parents. It means a tremendous amount to me as a publisher to publish books more parents can afford.
While licensed character books are sold in traditional bookstores, they are most often found in mass market retailers, like Target, Walmart, or Buy Buy Baby (which I think happens to have a damn good book selection for the youngest set). True, you aren’t going to Costco as a book destination (in my house we apparently go to find the heaviest container of laundry detergent to see if I can actually lift it). But is buying a book at these places a problem? I’m happy to find books everywhere I go.
I do not rely on Stop-n-Shop for my book buying needs (not that there’s anything wrong with that). I go to libraries and bookstores and do a lot of research to find the right books I think will engage my children. I would not be happy if all my child read were books about TV characters (mostly because I’d worry that if the only source of his inspiration was television he is probably watching way too much of it). In our house we eat cake. We also eat vegetables.
Read what you love. Let your kids read what they love too. Especially now.
Cowabunga.
Here are our favorite character stories we’re reading as of this week:
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Goodnight, Daniel Tiger
by Angela C. Santomero
Wind down from a busy day and get ready for bed with Daniel Tiger in this 8×8 storybook. It’s almost time for Daniel Tiger to say goodnight, but there’s still so much to do! There’s play time and then bath time…and don’t forget tooth-brushing time! Finally it’s time to get cozy under the covers for story time and a special goodnight song. Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood fans will love winding down their busy day with their favorite friend before snuggling into their own beds to say goodnight!
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The Monster at the End of this Book
by Jon Stone
By all accounts, this book is a favorite among toddlers and adults alike. Generations will recall their first time reading along as lovable, furry old Grover begs the reader not to turn the page . . . for a monster is at the end of the book! But, of course, the monster is none other than Grover himself. A classic, not to be missed.
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Batman Phonics Fun!
by Lucy Rosen
Learn to read with Phonics Fun! 12-book program with simple stories full of exciting Super Hero action!
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Lego Star Wars: Save the Galaxy!
by Ace Landers
Our heroes must evade Stormtroopers, outwit Darth Vader, and steal plans to the Death Star. With a little luck — and a lot of LEGOs — they might even manage to save the galaxy! With more than 40 deluxe flaps to lift, readers can explore the Death Star, a Jawa Sandcrawler, the Tantive IV, the Cantina, and the Millennium Falcon!
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Lipo-6 Review
What is it?
Lipo-6 is a weight loss pill claiming to offer a groundbreaking new formula for fast fat loss. It’s meant to offer a healthy solution for weight loss, with its fast acting capsule and pharmaceutical strength and easy to absorb ingredients.
It also adds that it’s the first liquid capsule diet pill on the market. Since it does have stimulants, the bottle mentions that use is limited to 8 week periods, and only for healthy people. So is Lipo-6 truly an effective and safe solution for weight loss? What have other users experienced, and is it really as useful as it claims to be? In this comprehensive review you’ll learn the truth about this weight loss supplement.
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Lipo-6 Ingredients and Side Effects
Caffeine Anhydrous
Synephrine HCL
Synthetic 99% Guggulsterones Z&E 1:1
Bioperine
Yohimbine HCL
Glycerin
Vegetable Cellulose
Purified Water
Polysorbate 90
Caffeine Anhydrous: Dehydrated form of caffeine used to stimulate the central nervous system, it increases energy, mental focus, and increases metabolism.
A full serving of Lipo-6 provides 400 mg of caffeine, which is the advised maximum daily limit for caffeine. Mixing it with other stimulants may increase the risk for side effects that include:
Headaches, ringing in the ears, migraines.
Nausea, vomiting, and mood swings.
Rapid heart rate, anxiety, and uncomfortable feelings.
Anxiety, jitters, and muscle spasms.
Caffeine is not a long-term solution for weight loss or energy, since Examine.com mentions:
“Habitual caffeine use leads to tolerance, which dulls several of caffeine’s effects”
It reduced any of its effects to almost nothing, the same group mentions:
“often to the point where the only benefit a user experiences is caffeine’s anti-sleep effect”
Caffeine is also tolerated differently depending on who is using it. In certain people lesser amounts are needed before side effects are experienced.
Also, when mixing caffeine with other stimulants, it can potentially multiply the possible effects which may also cause increase side effects.
Synephrine HCL: Stimulant known as bitter orange, it raises blood pressure, increases circulation, and is used for fat burning.
Web MD has also expressed concern over the use of this:
“bitter orange is POSSIBLY UNSAFE when taken as a supplement for a medical purpose such as weight loss”
It can potentially cause:
Rapid heart rate, high blood pressure, and fainting.
Heart attack, stroke, and many other cardiovascular problems.
Headaches, migraines, and ringing in the ears.
This ingredient can increase the effects of caffeine, and this may cause potentially more serious side effects. Though this combination of ingredients is often touted as a potent weight loss mixture, it can cause numerous unwanted symptoms.
Bitter orange has shown multiple cases of people experiencing heart attacks, stroke, and even death on its own.
Synthetic 99% Guggulsterones Z&E 1:1: A synthetic version of an extract taken from the Guggul tree. It’s claimed to improve thyroid function, though Examine.com adds:
“has been investigated for their usage in elevating thyroid function, but with lackluster results”
“not effective for the main means it is marketed for (fat loss)”
Possible side effects may include:
Rashes and allergic reactions.
Hiccups, belching, and upset stomach.
Nausea, vomiting, and loose stools.
Yohimbine HCL: Evergreen tree extract used as a fat burner and general stimulant. It increases blood flow, and is known to have a high rate of causing anxiety.
Web MD mentions that it’s:
“POSSIBLY UNSAFE”
“Yohimbe has been linked to reports of serious side effects”
This can include:
Rapid heart rate, cardiovascular problems, and heart attack.
Seizures, tremors, and involuntary twitches.
Kidney failure, organ failure, and death.
There have been documented cases of people dying from the use of this ingredient.
Certain people may have a serious reaction to this ingredient. Which Drugs.com mentions can lead to:
“central nervous system stimulation and paralysis, and may precipitate psychoses in predisposed individuals”
The effects of this ingredient are often only seen when fasting.
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Lipo-6 Quality of Ingredients
Of the 5 active ingredients, 3 are cheap stimulants which may potentially cause side effects. Synthetic Guggulsterones are also added, though these have been studied and shown to not have any effect on fat burning.
Relying on stimulants for weight loss is not recommended, as it may increase the risk for side effects. It’s also not a long-term solution, since the company admits an 8 week long timeframe is the longest one should use this brand for. They fail to explain what might happen if one continue to take it, though tolerance and possible side effects are the likely reasons.
There’s nothing in this brand that isn’t already found in many other products.
This product has the maximum amount of caffeine allowed in a day. Increased amounts can potentially cause serious unwanted side effects. Not everyone reacts to these ingredients the same way. That’s why the bottle advises to seek medical assistance if one has any medical concerns.
Use of this formula can potentially cause cardiovascular symptoms, and that’s why it’s advised to take this with caution, and to slowly introduce each dose.
The Price and Quality of Lipo-6
When purchased via the manufacturer, a 120 capsule bottle lasting 30 days sells for $49.95. This means the daily price for use is $1.66.
Many of these stimulant ingredients are already found in severeal other weight loss pills. Though these ingredients aren’t considered long term solutions, as the bottle itself says people should limit themselves to just 8 weeks of use.
These ingredients are cheap and can easily be replaced with simple coffee or tea. The only non stimulant additive is Bioperine, which is a patented form of black pepper for better digestion.
It’s because of all these stimulant ingredients that this brand is not fairly priced. Stimulants can only be taken for short periods before a tolerance is built. This requires cycling of the brand, which means there’s certain periods where you shouldn’t use this in order to prevent possible side effects or a lack of benefits.
Business of Lipo-6
The company is owned by Nutrex Research Inc., and they can be contacted via the following:
Phone Number: (888) 368-8739
Address: 579 S Econ Cir
Oviedo, Florida 32765
The FDA sent them a warning letter over the use of DMAA in older batches of Lipo-6. According to the FDA, this ingredient has the potential to cause serious side effects:
“could range from shortness of breathe to tightening of the chest and/or possible myocardial infarction (heart attack)”
This potentially harmful ingredient was also not FDA approved, so the makers were required to stop adding it. Another warning letter was sent over the use of DMBA in their brands. The FDA stated:
“there is no history of use or other evidence of safety “
Twice the FDA had to correct the company for using potentially harmful ingredients to their supplements. These additivrs have both not been recognized as being safe or effective, so it’s unknown why they would add it to their brands.
The possibility for serious side effects is too high to justify the use of them. It’s unknown if the company does enough research into their ingredients. As thee additives have long been known to be potentially harmful to human health.
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Customer Opinions of Lipo-6
Here are some select reviews from people online:
“did not lose weight. Did not have any effect whatsoever”
“it’s a waste of money and it did not work”
“Instead of losing weight I gained 7 lbs.”
“This stuff did nothing to curb my appetite or to burn fat”
There were a few issues with side effects and some actually gained weight. Though some users did experience an increase in energy, any high amount of caffeine would have the exact same effect.
There was concern from certain people that this brand failed to produce any effects at all. For some, even adding diet and exercise had no noticeable results.
Conclusion – Does Lipo-6 Work?
When considering a brand like Lipo-6, it’s important to look at both the kind of ingredients, and what clinical studies have to say. The mixture of these stimulant ingredients and other additives may be potentially unsafe. That’s why organizations like Web MD have warned against their use for fat burning. Customers have also experienced a wide array of effects from weight gain to stimulant like side effects. The company has also had to reformulate their supplements on 2 separate occasions, for adding ingredients the FDA deemed potentially unhealthy and unproven for weight loss.
A stimulant free option which ranked as the 2016 best supplement of the year is available in Sletrokor.
This weight loss supplement has the overall benefit of weight loss with only natural wholesome ingredients. It’s been shown via customer testimonials to be a safe and effective weight loss product. It’s meant to suppress appetite, increase metabolism, improve overall mood, and several other benefits. You can read about these effects from customers who experienced them on their official website.
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Books that Inadvertently Almost (Maybe Did) Traumatize My Child
Good intentions. Well, we know how that road goes. You turn on a movie before you realize are they are, wait, are they… oh god. You start to read a book without realizing it has something scary in it. We’ve all been there. I blame lack of sleep over lack of awareness. Some kids are perfectly fine sitting through Star Wars and some of those same kids get freaked out watching Paddington Bear (who knew that blowing up a galaxy is apparently less frightening than being shipped off to a new country by yourself with only a note to “look after this bear?”).
Maybe you’ve had a book as a kid that still scares the dickens out of you. I do. Suffice it to say I was convinced Hitler was alive and well in New Jersey (no need to get into the details). My mother, a teacher, lived by the mantra “There’s a book for that” and promptly bought me a book to help: Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself, by Judy Blume. It is about a girl who believes Hitler is alive and well. I’m sure it was meant to be reassuring (spoiler alert: Hitler was indeed dead), but it only convinced me that I wasn’t crazy to have this thought. That book haunted me. It had to be turned around, upside down, hidden in the back of my bookshelf. The cover still gives me nightmares. As an adult I can see that it was a pretty rational, even insightful choice; a story meant to appeal as a character who might feel the same angst I did. As an adult I see that while the Holocaust definitely plays into it, there’s a lot more about the story of a girl trying to find her way. I totally missed all that by getting hung up on the “Hitler might be in Miami Beach” plot.
To Be Filed Under: I Will Never Make the Mistakes My Mother Made
Maurice Sendak’s classic Where the Wild Things Are has been written about extensively, both from the perspective that it really understands children and the perspective that it scares the hell out of them. Under the “Well, I’m sitting right here next to him so nothing could scare him that much and it IS a classic” premise, I started reading the book. It scared the crap out of him. I mean, in retrospect, we’re talking about wild things coming out at night. Even if they are friendly, they still lurk. And I was reading this to a kid who was/is/probably forever will be afraid to go to sleep without a parent in the room. Publishers sometimes make really dumb book choices. Ooopsies.
I will say that I am not a proponent of keeping children in a bubble. And I think books are a wonderful way for them to explore things that in real life may be frightening. It’s a “safe” way for them to try on situations, go on adventures, take part in an alternate reality and still wake up safely in their own beds. In fact there are professionals who argue that one of the best ways for kids to confront fears like this is head on through a story.
And let’s not lose sight of the fact that books are inherently vehicles for escape. When adults read we love to get in the minds of criminals and sociopaths, see into the hearts of the villains, explore situations we never would in the real world. It fires up imaginations, gives us insight, allows us to try on a few costumes. That’s why we love books and that’s why we want, as parents, to instill a love of reading.
But, again, the running theme of this blog comes to play: Kids are different. While most Judy Blume books were a way for me to live through friendships gone bad, first crushes, disappointments and fears about adolescence, Starring Sally J. Freedman was a book that made me want to throw up. Some kids will be intrigued about pushing boundaries in a story. Some kids will slam that cover shut faster than you can say “Chapter One.” There’s nothing wrong with trying different books, and you might have to so you can see where your child lands in the “This is cool” vs. “I never want to see this book again” ends of the spectrum.
You know your kids. Even if you are halfway through a book and you see “that look” or the eyes go wide or they start to scooch closer to you while gripping your arm, stop. Ask what’s scaring them. Try to talk through it. Read it together, even if, maybe especially if, it’s an older child. If it’s not working then shut the book. Depending on the trauma level you can either leave it in their room and say “maybe we’ll read it again another time” or take it with you: “I’ll keep this in another room/far away/hidden on another planet.” I would advise against the “it’s just a book” line. Because it’s not: it’s a world. And even if it’s a made up world to them it still kind of exists. Even if the worst happens and you totally traumatize your child with a book that will scare her for the next three decades, don’t worry: sometimes those kids grow up to be editors.
Books that inadvertently scared (hopefully not scarred) my children include We’re Going On A Bear Hunt in which a family has to run from a threatening bear (yeah that one should have been obvious) and Whose Mouse Are You? a wonderful classic in which mouse’s parents get eaten by other animals (don’t worry, they are all ok in the end).
Photo courtesy of HarperCollins
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We’re Going on a Bear Hunt
by Michael Rosen
Now the very youngest readers can join in the fun with this Classic Board Book™ edition of We’re Going on a Bear Hunt. Full of delightful comedy and high drama, this tale of a brave family’s joyous romp through sweeping landscapes is sure to win new fans.
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Where the Wild Things Are
by Maurice Sendak
Where the Wild Things Are is fifty years old! Let the wild rumpus with Max and all the wild things continue as this classic comes to life as never before with new reproductions of Maurice Sendak’s artwork. Astonishing state-of-the-art technology faithfully captures the color and detail of the original illustrations. Sendak himself enthusiastically endorsed this impressive new interpretation of his art before his death in May 2012. Winner of the 1964 Caldecott Medal for the Most Distinguished Picture Book of the Year, Where the Wild Things Are became an iconic book that has inspired a movie, an opera, and the imagination of generations. It continues to be one of the best loved books of all time the world over, by the one and only Maurice Sendak.
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Whose Mouse Are You?
by Robert Kraus
In a series of delightfully imaginary achievements, “nobody’s mouse” transforms himself into the beloved hero of his mother, father, sister, and brand-new baby brother. In their very first collaboration, now celebrating its 30th anniversary, Robert Kraus and Jose Aruego give charm and validity to one of childhood’s more difficult experiences. Tender and catchy, Robert Kraus’s rhyming text, combined with Jose Aruego’s large, vibrantly clever illustrations, makes for a storytime classic. This happy picture book is brusting with wit, tenderness, and joyful ingenuity.
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